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Seven and Isaac routinely step in to protect me from Eric, ask if I’m okay, and reaffirm the toxicity of the stalker’s behavior. Mechanically, it never stops pushing you into narrative choices with characters who want to protect you - not in ways that allow them to be seen as saviors, but that instead show genuine love and care. Throughout all the choices you make, the friends you connect with, and the weapons you eagerly romance, Boyfriend Dungeon never stops trying to teach you that your boundaries matter. I’ve now played through Boyfriend Dungeon multiple times, including a playthrough where I placated Eric and accepted advances - at least until I absolutely could not stomach it anymore. Whether it’s your cousin or any of your romances, everyone around you works to warn you about Eric. It took another character to make me realize Boyfriend Dungeon was trying to tell me Eric wasn’t attempting to romance me - he wanted to control me.įrom that point on, I began paying attention to the way other characters talked about the villain. It was then that I realized he wasn’t simply irritating but rather showcasing characteristics that were becoming increasingly threatening. Even in hindsight, I didn’t see Eric as stalking my character instead, he was just annoying. At one point, Seven - a character I was romancing at the time - attempted to outright fight Eric because he had continually violated the boundaries I established.Īfter finishing the interaction, I put the game down to sit with my feelings. Every single person around you all but screams this at you every step of the way. Eric is never seen as charming he’s unsettling and creepy. Unlike the pop culture characters I mentioned above, obsessive behavior in Boyfriend Dungeon is never depicted as coincidental or harmless. And that’s exactly the problem I see Boyfriend Dungeon working to solve. No one taught my friends that his obsessive behavior was harmful, or that it would lead to something worse. I don’t blame those around me for not intervening. Eventually, the relationship devolved into physical abuse. The stalking in my own life escalated once I agreed to date him. While Bella and Buffy are fictional characters, the romance narratives afforded to them contain real-world implications. Boundary crossing is largely romanticized in popular media, convincing us that if a partner isn’t obsessively watching our every move, they must not love us deeply enough. Romantic narratives like these serve to show the audience how infatuated the traditionally female and male leads are toward each other, but they’re ultimately creepy at best. I don’t know whether this was a culture push specific to my ethnic identity as a Latina, or the fact that we were taught that Angel stalking Buffy the Vampire Slayer at school was romantic, or that we widely saw Edward Cullen breaking in to watch Bella Swan sleep in Twilight similarly.
Eventually, the alarm I had going off in my head had its batteries taken out by friends who would see him as a machista man who was just going the extra mile. The obsession and stalking slowly built up. An unwanted gift, text messages that showed he knew more than he should, and finally showing up at my university in another city to surprise me. Abusive partners aim to control the people they target, which can slowly manifest over time or happen all at once. Warning signs about abusive relationships vary, but one consistent element of abusive partners is their love of control.
While some players took issue with being unable to opt out of engaging with Eric, though, I was thankful for it. While I enjoyed finding romance, summer flings, and texting potential partners, it was Boyfriend Dungeon’s approach to the darker elements of dating that encouraged me to form a personal connection to it.īoyfriend Dungeon ’s approach to the less lighthearted aspect of dating, which includes a stalker character who serves as the game’s antagonist, has been met with some criticism. Developed by Kitfox Games, it’s a hybrid that merges dating sims and roguelikes, offering equal amounts of hack-n-slash and relationships.
But Boyfriend Dungeon is something different. I’ve been playing Otome games - narrative, choice-based adventures starring a female protagonist who can have romances with a traditionally male cast - since they were just simple Flash titles on the internet.
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